"It is important for your child to see that you can be wrong. What's important is that they learn from you how to deal with those mistake, how to take responsibility, how to apologize where necessary and how to move on" pg 5, Be A Great Dad
Among the highlights by this book are :-
- Your own father will be the role model which defined the meaning of the fatherhood and your understanding of the fatherhood will be much influenced by him.
- For the father, verbal instruction is not enough to mold your kids but it is more effective to show them through your action.
- We (Father) need to align who we are and thus the alignment of the new generation will properly followed.
- It is not a simple job to nurture a 'new men/women', we might feel unprepared but it should not be a big problem because we may learn from time to time.
- We (father and mother) should not be afraid of making mistake because we are still human, don't be too upset but don't drag it too long. The most important thing is to rectify the mistake and allow them (kids) to see it. This will make them realize that, even an adult may do mistake and do rectification.
- Don't be too dependence to the external parties regarding parenting advice because you are the expert of your own kids.
- Remember that parenting is a tough job but it is worth investment of your money, time and effort.
Be a Happy Father.....
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